At her retirement dinner she said: "I did not do this work. The families did. I just carried some of the weight for a while." That's the kind of humility you don't forget.
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July 21, 1946 – February 7, 2026 · 79 years
"A fierce heart wrapped in quiet grace."
At her retirement dinner she said: "I did not do this work. The families did. I just carried some of the weight for a while." That's the kind of humility you don't forget.
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She fought to keep my family together when the system wanted to separate us. I don't know where we would be without her.
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Catherine was my caseworker when I was 14. She was the first adult who ever told me I wasn't the problem. I have been trying to believe it ever since. She helped.
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Mam fought for people who had nothing and everything stacked against them. She never once thought she was doing anything special. That was the most special thing about her.
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Catherine was on the board of our nonprofit for 12 years. She never missed a meeting, never let a bad policy slide, and never raised her voice in anger. Formidable.
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She took in three foster children over the years while raising her own three. She never spoke of this as sacrifice. She called it the best thing she ever did.
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Cathy and I graduated the same year. She went to social work, I went to finance. She always said she got the better deal. I've always thought she was right.
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I supervised Cathy's master's thesis in 1981. She was the most purposeful student I ever taught — every word, every choice, in service of something larger than herself.
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Mom had a saying: "Justice delayed is justice for no one." She said it in court. She said it at the dinner table. She lived it.
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She worked double shifts when we were small and still made us dinner every night. I did not understand what that cost her until I had children of my own.
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